Imagine the candlelight dancing in your partner’s loving eyes. Heartfelt words hover in the air… his soft caress sends a shiver up your spine. Her eyes are locked on yours... shining the light of her deepening love and trust… reflecting a knowing… and sense of being known.   

You touch, gently at first… in that way you remember… you’re cherished, adored, more man than she’s ever had… a woman more beautiful than he’s ever known. You are connected… in love.  

Welcome to the future of your relationship. It all starts at our Enhance the Romance™ Couples Adventure (May 7-11, 2009) – a three day, 4 night romantic couples retreat in the sun and fun of the Riviera Maya, a 70-mile stretch of white sand beaches and turquoise waters on the Yucatan Peninsula in Mexico.

Besides spending a romantic weekend getaway in the heart of the Mayan Riviera, here is just some of what you will experience and learn:  

• How to touch and be touched, just the way you like, every time
• 3 little things that make a HUGE difference any relationship
• Massage techniques that will give your partner a whole new appreciation for you (and your relationship)
• How to translate the confusion of “he-says” and “she-says” into “Wow…I really AM the luckiest man/woman in the world!”
• What love language works best for each of you
• How to ask for (and get) and what you really want
• And much, much more!

 

What this Retreat is NOT About   

This is NOT some fruit-loopy, Dr. Phil talkin’, woo-woo couples therapy.   

You will not be sitting and just listening to some boring instruction about how to communicate better, or role playing issues from your childhood. Not that I don't value both of those approaches, mind you. That's just not the experience you'll be having here.  

This is not about raising your kundalini, or finding out just how much of the Kama Sutra you do or do not know.   

What this Retreat IS About  

The Gottman Institute offers research to support two main reasons and times for divorce: 5-7 years due to high conflict and 10-12 years due to loss of intimacy and connection.   

This retreat is about redefining romance.  

It’s about recognizing how you are really showing up (or not) with your significant other. It's about knowing how to honor what's important to you and your significant other, without sacrificing yourself in the process.

It's about learning how to ask for what you really want - without fear of the other person getting ticked off at you... and enthusiastically honoring your request. Would you like to negotiate a weekly foot rub? How about receiving more daily love notes? Do you come home and sigh deeply thinking the other person should just read your mind and offer to initiate…making dinner, doing something nice for you or rubbing your neck to make your headache feel better? Or do you clearly say, "Honey, I've had a really long day and my head is splitting. Would you rub my neck for 5 minutes?"  

"Jenn offers a philosophy of life that will only improve your own personal life and relationships, helping you to feel more grounded and more connected.” ~Pam Swartz, Author of Arizona Getaways for the Incurably Romantic & Phoenix Dine-Out; www.CloudNinePress.com

You see...a lot of couples try to force getting what they want but they fail because of three simple reasons.  

1. Perception  
Be honest. How many times have you taken something personally that you knew really had nothing to do with you? Or exploded at a loved one when it wasn't really them you were mad at, they just happened to be there and provided a perfect opportunity to blow up? Often when we have an unpleasant experience in the past, we carry that experience into our present and can perceive circumstances differently than they really are.   

2. Power vs. Force  
There is a BIG difference between asking for something confidently and powerfully versus trying to force a situation. I mean really, who likes to be forced to do anything? Have you ever noticed that force just creates counter-force? I can't tell you how many times clients have come to me explaining over and over that they've asked for what they want and did not get whatever they asked for, and more often than not it was because they were not coming from a powerful, neutral place in their request and trying to force the situation.  

3. Communication  
Most people think communication is when we speak. Wrong!  

Do you know that only 7% of our communication is even in the words that we use? That's right. The question is, what tone are you using? Do your words say one thing but your body language say something else entirely?

Are you still chewing over something that happened between the two of you two days, or even two weeks after the fact?

The truth is effective communication is when someone else hears what you have just communicated in the same way you intended it to be heard. Sometimes, in order to hear what another person is actually attempting to communicate, we must learn what language they are using to begin with.  

“Jenn’s instructions and examples were extremely clear and simple. I totally recommend this course and Jenn Kaye to anyone who really wants to better their relationship.” Scott M., Scottsdale AZ

While yes, men and women communicate differently, I believe that men and women really want the same things. To feel connected to each other, to have peace in their being, to have joy in their life and to enjoy the journey together. (I'm sure there's more, but you get the general idea).   

Communication in any relationship is just like learning a foreign language. I don't mean Mars & Venus...I mean, have you ever gone to a foreign country and even attempted, no matter how poorly, to say something, anything, in their language?  

One of my favorite experiences was when I was living in Japan. I had to figure out which train to take and walked up to the information desk. The young woman standing at the counter was visibly uncomfortable with the potential of having yet another tourist ask her a question in a language that was not hers. I approached her and extremely apologetically (with really bad pronunciation) explained in Japanese that I did not speak the language well but needed to know what train went to Nagoya.   

What happened next is that her eyes lit up, the tension in her face disappeared, her entire body posture changed - and she responded to me in perfect English.   

By making one small attempt to communicate in her language, not only did I get my question answered, I could understand the answer in my own!  

We all have different ways of loving each other, and by learning to understand the translation of what someone else means, through their touch, their words, their gestures and affections, we open the door for greater ease and satisfaction.        

“What a fun way to learn! I never felt like I was ‘working’ on my relationship and the hands-on experience showed me exactly what my partner likes. I can’t wait to continue practicing on our own!” Todd, Tempe AZ

You will also learn:  

• How to shift your perception quickly
• How to neutralize miscommunication and misunderstandings
• Practical recipes for romance that you can use every day
• How to maintain the connection between you with greater ease
• Keys for translating what language you and your partner are using
• The ways to turn each other on - in every way!

….the real secret is if you learn how to bridge the translation gap of what you think someone else wants and find out what really turns them on... and apply it in your relationship, you will simply get more of what you want, without getting frustrated, irritated, or resentful of the other person….and more often!  

While I can’t guarantee that you’ll leave with the perfect movie-script relationship, I will promise that you’ll get a great start on having the kind of relationship you both want.   

According to a report filed by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers entitled “Making Marriage Last, A Guide to Preventing Divorce,” the number one reason most relationships fail isn’t about sex or money – it’s poor communication! Understanding, listening, speaking in a way your partner can hear, and connecting through touch – they’re all part of the formula for a vital relationship.   
 

Yes, touch is vitally important to your relationship. That's why we have committed to teaching you practical couples massage techniques that show you exactly how, where and when to touch each other to stay connected.

And it turns out that science has proven you are both right about how and why you feel connected to each other….    
 

We now understand that Oxytocin, or the “cuddle hormone,” influences our ability to bond with each other. Humans with higher oxytocin levels are more likely to feel an increased desire and connection to their partners. Oxytocin increases for women when they are massaged, hugged, kissed or held, and for men during orgasm. There are thousands of ways to touch, so understanding what to do and when to do it is critical.   
 

That’s just one of the reasons touch is as important in a relationship as sex. This means, guys, if you want it more often, then you’ve got to learn to touch her the way she wants to be touched. And women – sometimes it really does need to lead to sex.   
 

“We preferred the all-day session so that we could really experience the atmosphere without being interrupted. Jenn’s style of teaching made it feel like nothing else mattered except the two of us and focusing our best intentions and love for each other into our touch. We are so grateful to you for creating this experience Jenn, you changed our relationship in ways you can’t even imagine.” Karen & Andrew, Phoenix AZ

But your weekend at The Riviera Maya isn’t about sex. It’s about creating a deeper bond in your relationship through the healing power of conscious, aware – and knowledgeable - touch and romance.  Every aspect of your relationship will be sweetened through your vibrant, newfound connection and the skills to simply say what you want, when you want it – and actually get it! 

Only you know what you want… to be desired… seen and heard… to talk, touch, and explore the depths of each other physically, emotionally, sexually, and spiritually. Why not go for it all?  
 
 Why Should You Listen to Me?  
For over 30 years I have been touching bodies and mediating relationships. You see, when I was a small child, my mother who was the eldest daughter of 10 children said to me, "Jenn, honey, this is a thumb. This is what you do with a thumb," and proceeded to begin teaching me reflexology and back massage. (Had I known then that people got paid to provide massage therapeutically and professionally, I would have charged my aunts and uncles and had college paid for by the age of 12.)  

All joking aside, my background is in languages: Japanese, Russian, French, some Spanish and more, which has led me to being an international translator of sorts. And while I could have translated for diplomats and politicians many years ago, it is serving the essence of the human spirit that fulfills me the most. Over time, what I have found is that my training and expertise in translation has a much more practical, everyday application in helping couples find a Universal Language that both can speak in their communications.   

After receiving my licensure in massage therapy, I realized that touch is without a doubt, a Universal Language. It doesn't matter where we come from, what language we speak, what our gender or culture is...everyone understands a nurturing touch. As my clients increased and we began identifying physiological patterns related to different challenges they were having, they began to ask how they could take that information back to their loved ones. They wanted simple, easy-to-use, practical tools and skills to help alleviate everyday discomfort, such as headaches or low back pain - and be able to either give or receive that with their significant other.   

I am not a certified counselor or sex therapist. I am a licensed massage therapist, certified hypnotherapist, certified BodyTalk practitioner, coach, consultant, facilitator, published author, international speaker and relationships and communications expert.   

My style is straightforward and to-the-point. I am an expert at what I do, and believe that all the education in the world is worth little more than a penny if we can't put it into action. And that is why I have developed a program that teaches simple, practical and immediately implementable skills and tools to apply to your relationship.   

Can three days away really change us that much?   

For over six years I’ve led this course as a one-day class. The overwhelming response has been for more! Even after one day their lives changed! So imagine having three full days to connect with each other more deeply than you ever thought possible... and the key to your success is probably not what you’re thinking.  
 

Your All-Inclusive Enhance the Romance™ Getaway Includes: 

• First, your journey begins upon arrival at the Cancun International Airport where your personal driver will transport you to a private condo at the beautiful Elements, a beautiful property located in Playa del Carmen (just 40 minutes south of Cancun.)
• Second, each day you will participate in interactive, experiential activities, including:
• Hands-on lessons in effective touch and massage techniques. This is not some boring all-talk and no action experience – you will be learning (and practicing) techniques to touch and massage each other every day. Sorry… nudity, tantric free-for-alls, and bear-your-soul therapy sessions are strictly forbidden. Safety, boundaries, and confidentiality make this a playful and active experience.
• Simple couples yoga that will build on your experiences together
• Defining what “Romance” means to you and learning how to translate that into each other’s language
• Practical recipes for romance (from the soon to be released book)
• Third, make new lifelong friends by enjoying delicious meals together. All meals are specially prepared and are included in your weekend. Lively conversation and glimpses of the moon-lit silvery sea only enhance your experience...
• And Fourth, you’ll have plenty of time on your own to melt under the strong hands of a professional masseuse at Playa del Carmen's premiere day spa, or enjoy snorkeling in the lush tropical surroundings and teeming fish in the clear blue waters. Some surprise activities and gifts await you each night…but you’ll have to sign up to find out what they are! (Hint: so who doesn’t like candlelight, wine and chocolate?)

Price for this All-Inclusive* Romantic Getaway: $3500 per couple.

This price includes:

• Your own private suite at the Elements Resort condominium in beautiful Playa del Carmen, the Heart of the Mayan Riviera
• Roundtrip transportation to and from Cancun International Airport
• All Meals especially catered to tempt your palate and rejuvenate your body
• 1/2 Day Adventures to Spa Itza and snorkeling along one of the world's best reefs
• All Facilitation, Instruction, Handouts and more...

*Price does not include airfare.

This is a weekend you’ll remember and continue to enjoy for the rest of your lives together.  
 

So sign up now, before you get bogged down in your day-to-day overly scheduled to-do list and Enhance the Romance™ in your life now. Especially in challenging times, our relationship is what keeps us together and strong.  

Remember what you’ll gain in this experience: lasting love, deeper appreciation for your partner, a communication guide that will reignite your appreciation and desire for one another and a heightened awareness of what each other truly wants.  

“We have wanted to find ways to stay connected and help each other relax. We’ve read books and gone to seminars, but this went above and beyond anything we had imagined. The hands-on practice, relaxed atmosphere and Jenn’s personal assistance for our individual communication styles and body types gave us insight and skills that we will continue to use at home."   Marilyn & Rick H. (Couple married for 25 years)

YES! Sign us up! Email JennKaye@TouchwithIntention or call me at (602) 403-3500 or simply press the paypal button now to reserve your spot today!    

I look forward to seeing you on the beach at the Riviera Maya in April!  

Wishing you New Adventures in Romance,   
 
Jenn Kaye 

Additional Testimonials

"The hands-on practice and individual assistance were priceless. This information is what every couple needs to learn to feel good and communicate better in their relationship." Rhonda, Chandler AZ

"This is the gift that keeps on giving. DEFINITELY a couple MUST DO!" Rick, Mesa AZ

"Wow.  It's as if Jenn knew exactly what we both wanted in our relationship, and we rediscovered that through the magic of touch. We will definitely be using what we learned at home." Sarai, Scottsdale AZ